In pursuit of my African Dream – In an imperfect world!

ImageWith legs to take me where I’d go,

With eyes to see the sunset’s glow,

With ears to hear what I would know,

Oh, God forgive me when I whine,

I’m blessed indeed, the world is mine.


I was recently asked to assist with the following scenario: A blind lady was raped. Upon reporting it to authorities, she was informed that nothing could be done because of her blindness, she was regarded as an unreliable witness. I was then asked to find out:


1)    whether this is in fact true i.e. that she would be regarded as an unreliable witness as a result of her blindness, and

2)    whether there are any organisations who deal specifically with the rights of disabled people who have been violated in this way


The result of my search was astounding. There appears not to be any organisations who deal specifically with disabled people who have been violated in this way. Organisations such as Rape Crisis, Mosaic and others accept disabled people and deal with them in the same way as they would with able-bodied people.


In some respects this is good – that disabled people are accepted as “normal” people and treated as such, but in another aspect it could cause complications because disabled people have certain challenges that make them slightly more vulnerable than others.


For example: although women with disabilities experience about the same rate of emotional, physical and sexual abuse as women without disabilities, women with disabilities are more likely to experience the abuse over longer periods of time. The most common perpetrators are husbands or live-in companions. Women with disabilities are also more likely to experience abuse by medical professionals and by parents than women without disabilities.


Abuse has a more severe negative effect on the self-esteem of women with physical disabilities than those without disabilities. Disability is usually associated with fewer economic resources and limited access to health care and transport thereby increasing the risk of abuse. It also limits the woman’s options for escaping abusive situations or accessing abuse women’s programmes and interventions.


There is also what is known as “disability-related” abuse, whereby perpetrators withhold much needed orthotic equipment (like wheelchairs, braces, crutches etc), medication, transportation, or essential assistance with personal tasks, such as dressing or getting out of bed.


  • Fear of retribution if the perpetrator finds out the violence/abuse has been reported/disclosed
  • Shame and humiliation – the feeling of shame and humiliation that this has happened to her.
  • She may think she deserved the abuse. She may think that, because of her disability, she cannot hope for better treatment.
  • She may feel protective of her partner. She may have been told that no one else would have her or take care of her because of her disability.
  • She may not fully comprehend her situation. She may not recognize that what she is experiencing is abuse, especially if she has been exposed to it most of her life.
  • She may think her doctor is not knowledgeable or does not care about abuse.
  • She may think her doctor is too busy to spend time talking about this problem.
  • She may think her doctor couldn’t help her with this problem.


  • They believe that abuse doesn’t occur in the population of women with disabilities.
  • The patient is tearful and uncooperative, or she is intoxicated from alcohol or other drugs, making it difficult to get the history.
  • They think the woman provoked or deserved the abuse.
  • They believe what happens in the home, in terms of domestic violence, is a private matter and therefore should not be discussed.
  • They think she can just leave if she wants to.
  • They know the assailant and believe he or she is incapable of abuse.
  • They don’t know what to do if they uncover the abuse or they believe it is the job of other professionals, such as social workers.
  • They know what to do, but believe it won’t help–“she just goes back to him anyway.”


  • A description of the incident that is not consistent with the kind of injury.
  • A time delay between injuries and presentation.
  • An “accident”-prone history.
  • Suicide attempts or depression.
  • Repetitive psychosomatic complaints or recurring physical complaints with no physical signs of organic disease, including: headaches, chest pains, heart palpitations, choking sensations, numbness and tingling, nervousness, dysponorea, pelvic pain.
  • Emotional complaints, including anxiety, panic attacks, sleep disorders, nervousness, depression, difficulty coping with parenting, or nonspecific complaints of marital problems.
  • Signs and symptoms of alcoholism and drug abuse.
  • Injury during pregnancy, or “spontaneous” abortions, premature labor, low birthweight babies, and foetal injuries.
  • Other pregnancy-related problems, such as substance abuse, poor nutrition, depression, and late or sporadic access to prenatal care.
  • Signs and symptoms of post-traumatic stress syndrome: increased arousal, sleep difficulties, irritability, difficulty concentrating, and hypervigilance.


  • Examine the entire body, noting areas of tenderness as well as areas with visible injuries.
  • Injuries due to abuse may have a “central pattern,” that is, injuries to the face, neck, throat, chest, breast, abdomen, and genitals.
  • Bear in mind that some injuries tend not to happen accidentally.
  • Be suspicious of injuries suggestive of a defensive posture, such as bruises to the ulnar aspect of the forearm.
  • Multiple injuries in various stages of healing suggest physical violence occurring over a period of time.
  • Any injury during pregnancy should be explored to determine if it was sustained as a result of domestic violence.
  • In persons who have difficulty communicating because of cognitive impairment, examine the genital area for signs of hematomas, bleeding, or the insertion of foreign bodies.


  • Talk with her directly and privately about the suspected abuse.
  • Assess the degree of danger she is experiencing.
  • Help her develop a safety plan, including emergency shelter, transportation, supplies, medication, cash, keys, etc.
  • Document the incident in her medical record, including your suspicions of abuse.
  • Plan for follow-up care.
  • Give her information on resources that could help her


Another aspect we tend to forget is that sexual offence survivors most of the time struggle to access information on:


  • Physical health
  • Psychosocial wellbeing
  • Negotiating the criminal justice system


Don’t forget to tell your friends to visit:


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